The Catholic

Welcome to What Lies Buried, where host Karly Latham delves into the raw and real stories of emotional abuse survivors. This week's episode is a compelling follow-up with Tonya, who shares the early stages of her relationship, the impact of a hyper-religious environment, and the unraveling of her marriage.

From meeting at a conservative Catholic university to navigating a marriage filled with concealed secrets and financial betrayals, Tonya reveals the emotional and psychological turmoil she endured. A survivor who recounts her experiences of betrayal, financial ruin, and eventual healing after a tumultuous marriage at an ultra-conservative Catholic university. Additionally, two mothers share their poignant stories of co-parenting post-divorce, navigating emotional challenges, and fostering resilience in their children. The discussions underscore the importance of self-discovery, therapy, and supportive relationships in overcoming trauma and rebuilding a nurturing environment for personal and familial growth.

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00:00 Introduction to What Lies Buried

01:20 Tonya's Early Relationship and College Life

08:23 Marriage and Early Challenges

09:27 Struggles with Family Planning and Health

12:42 The Beginning of the End

15:39 Vacation Tensions and Medication Issues

44:42 Discovering Financial Betrayal

45:43 Unraveling the Debt

46:43 Facing Foreclosure and Repossession

48:44 The Aftermath of Separation

51:11 Struggles of Co-Parenting

58:19 New Beginnings with Josh

01:03:23 The Pain of Abandonment

01:09:11 Moving Forward and Healing

01:23:47 Final Thoughts and Advice