The Firefighter

In this episode of 'What Lies Buried,' host Karly Latham has a candid conversation with her friend Kurstin, who reveals her deeply personal experiences of emotional abuse within a toxic marriage. Their discussion highlights the influence of their Mormon upbringing on their relationships and Kurstin's struggle with manipulation and isolation. They explore the taboo of divorce in their faith, the psychological impact of staying in an unhealthy relationship, and the eventual empowerment Kurstin found in reclaiming her life. Her story offers profound insights and encouragement for those facing similar challenges, emphasizing the importance of self-worth and the strength required to pursue happiness and freedom.

 

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00:00 Introduction to What Lies Buried

01:16 Upcoming Episodes and Guest Introduction

01:52 Kurstin's Story: Religious Upbringing and Marriage

03:09 Struggles and Realizations in Marriage

06:09 Emotional Abuse and Breaking Points

13:45 The Decision to Divorce

42:43 The Stigma of Divorce in the Mormon Church

44:19 Struggles and Personal Losses

45:41 Separation and the Fight for Independence

46:11 Rediscovering Self-Worth Through Modeling

47:06 Confronting the Emotional Manipulation

49:42 The Legal Battle and Emotional Turmoil

51:02 Family Dynamics and Support Systems

54:58 Breaking Free from an Abusive Relationship

01:10:19 Post-Divorce Healing and Self-Discovery

01:17:28 Final Thoughts and Advice