What Lies Buried: Uncovering Abuse with Karly Latham

BONUS- The Boy in the Basement Shadow Work Session

In this episode of 'What Lies Buried,' host Karly Latham sits down again with Lucas, a returning guest, to discuss his personal journey through emotional abuse and healing. Lucas shares updates on his life since his last appearance, revealing impactful changes in his relationships and career. Karly guides Lucas through a shadow work session using tarot and oracle cards to explore themes of growth, self-discovery, and breaking free from past cycles. This episode serves as a reflective and insightful conversation on healing from trauma and embracing new beginnings.
 
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If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse, please seek help: 
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If you would like to be involved with the show as a guest please schedule with this link: https://calendly.com/thevillagetarotwitch/what-lies-buried-podcast-interview?preview_source=et_card&month=2024-10 
 
For in-depth articles on emotional abuse and mental health, https://medium.com/@karly-latham 
 
 
 
00:00 Introduction to What Lies Buried
01:16 Welcoming Lucas Back
02:17 Lucas's Personal Journey
04:52 Shadow Work Session Begins
06:43 Tarot Card Insights
19:09 Reflections and Realizations
23:58 Exploring New Beginnings
24:18 Embracing New Passions
24:25 Facing the Unknown
25:59 Exploring Creative Outlets
27:48 Overcoming Self-Doubt
29:22 Self-Care and Generosity
31:54 Healing Past Wounds
40:56 Art as Self-Expression
48:24 Final Thoughts and Reflections

The Boy in the Basement

In this gripping episode of "What Lies Buried," host Karly Latham welcomes guest Lucas to share a harrowing account of surviving emotional and physical abuse within his family. Lucas opens up about the chilling experiences of being the scapegoat in a household marred by narcissism, alcoholism, and neglect. From a haunting childhood of isolation to discovering hidden family secrets, Lucas recounts his journey of breaking free from the toxic family dynamic.
Join Karly and Lucas as they delve into the complexities of growing up in an environment of gaslighting and manipulation, where even basic affection was denied. Lucas reveals how he overcame the curse of his family's legacy, found strength in therapy, and ultimately chose to sever ties to prioritize his own well-being. This episode offers a raw and honest exploration of healing, resilience, and the power of self-discovery.
For those who have faced similar battles, Lucas provides insight into navigating estrangement and emphasizes the importance of trusting oneself and seeking support. Tune in for a powerful conversation that sheds light on the unseen struggles of many and offers hope for breaking the cycle of abuse.
 
If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse, please seek help: 
https://www.thehotline.org/ 
 
Please subscribe to get a new episode every Thursday and uncover the stories that need to be told. 
 
If you would like to be involved with the show as a guest please schedule with this link: https://calendly.com/thevillagetarotwitch/what-lies-buried-podcast-interview?preview_source=et_card&month=2024-10 
 
For in-depth articles on emotional abuse and mental health, https://medium.com/@karly-latham 
 
 
00:00 Introduction to What Lies Buried
01:00 Meet Today's Guest: Lucas
02:08 Lucas' Childhood Memories
03:14 Struggles with ADHD and Family Dynamics
05:56 Parental Neglect and Abuse
31:10 Isolation and Bullying
41:43 Struggles with Hearing Loss
43:19 Neglect and Emotional Abuse
44:37 Challenges in Education
45:58 Pursuing Art and Facing Doubts
54:05 Financial Manipulation and Control
58:33 Breaking Free and Seeking Validation
01:05:03 Family Dynamics and Realizations
01:07:51 Confronting Parental Abuse
01:18:13 The Hidden Nature of Abuse
01:18:24 Impact of a Father's Words
01:18:56 Family Tragedy and Unresolved Grief
01:20:49 The Weight of Unspoken Trauma
01:23:15 A Mother's Struggle and Its Effects
01:30:43 Breaking the Family Curse
01:34:06 The Journey of Estrangement
01:38:39 Therapy and Self-Realization
01:55:42 Advice for Those in Similar Situations
01:57:47 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
 

Shadow Work Session: With Deadly Intent

In this episode of "What Lies Buried," host Karly Latham invites listeners to explore the depths of emotional trauma through a personal shadow work session. Karly shares her own journey of healing, offering insights into the subconscious patterns that keep us stuck and the importance of self-love and self-discovery.
As Karly delves into her tarot card readings, she uncovers past wounds, the impact of manipulation, and the longing for validation. Through candid reflections, Karly reveals her struggles and triumphs, highlighting the power of acknowledging pain and celebrating personal growth.
Listeners are encouraged to join Karly in this transformative practice, using prompts and introspective thinking to uncover their own truths. This episode is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and a reminder that healing is a journey we don't have to take alone.
If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse, please seek help: 
https://www.thehotline.org/ 
 
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For in-depth articles on emotional abuse and mental health, https://medium.com/@karly-latham 
 
00:00 Introduction to What Lies Buried
00:59 New Format Announcement
02:22 Understanding Shadow Work
05:43 Shadow Work Spread: Uncovering Past Wounds
09:48 Manipulation and Self-Worth
12:48 Seeking Validation and Approval
17:16 Healing Beliefs and Reclaiming Truth
23:55 Creating Healthy Boundaries
26:35 Strengths to Rebuild with Confidence
29:53 Conclusion and Listener Engagement

Halloween Special: With Deadly Intent

In this episode of 'What Lies Buried,' host Karly Latham introduces a special Halloween-themed story from the anthology 'Six Troubles, Seven Sins,' read by Daryl. Though fictional, it is deeply based on Karly's personal experiences with emotional abuse. The narrative delves into the twisted mind of Jeremy, a man who becomes increasingly obsessed and violent towards his partner after she leaves him due to his continuous lies and emotional manipulation. As the story unfolds, Jeremy's desperation and the sinister 'thing' inside him reveal the disturbing extent of his abusive behavior. The episode concludes with a reminder for survivors to reach out and share their stories safely.
 
To support indie authors like me and read more horror stories, please buy a copy of Six Troubles, Seven Sins. Available on Amazon: https://a.co/d/9QjmdHt 
 
Special thank you to Darrell for narrating. If you would like to contact Darrell for voice services, you can find him at: https://www.instagram.com/mr_wayne_the_knight78?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==
 
If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse, please seek help: 
https://www.thehotline.org/ 
Please subscribe to get a new episode every Thursday and uncover the stories that need to be told. 
 
If you would like to be involved with the show as a guest please schedule with this link: https://calendly.com/thevillagetarotwitch/what-lies-buried-podcast-interview?preview_source=et_card&month=2024-10 
 
00:00 Introduction to What Lies Buried
01:10 Karly's Halloween Special
02:14 A Terrifying Tale Begins
06:14 Descent into Obsession
11:15 Desperation and Manipulation
14:52 The Agony of Rejection
22:07 A Plea for Redemption
25:10 Confrontation and Accusations
25:56 Desperation and Denial
27:48 Attempts at Reconciliation
29:40 Breaking Point
31:42 Descent into Madness
33:49 Stalking and Confrontation
43:02 Violence and Arrest
48:34 Aftermath and Reflection
49:44 Podcast Outro and Support
 

Shadow Work Session: The Final Girl

In this episode of 'What Lies Buried,' host Karly Latham steps away from typical storylines to explore shadow work amidst her challenging divorce. Karly explains shadow work, a process that helps emotional abuse survivors integrate repressed emotions and beliefs and demonstrates this with a tarot card reading. By pulling cards like the Ten of Pentacles, Eight of Cups, and Nine of Swords, she identifies her support systems, hidden aspects due to past trauma, and anxieties that hinder her potential. Through personal stories of overcoming emotional abuse and striving for self-sufficiency, Karly guides listeners to process their hidden emotions and traumas, inviting them to reflect on their own journeys.
 
If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse, please seek help: 
https://www.thehotline.org/ 
Please subscribe to get a new episode every Thursday and uncover the stories that need to be told. 
If you would like to be involved with the show as a guest, please schedule with this link: https://calendly.com/thevillagetarotwitch/what-lies-buried-podcast-interview?preview_source=et_card&month=2024-10 
For in-depth articles on emotional abuse and mental health, https://medium.com/@karly-latham 
 
 
00:00 Introduction to What Lies Buried
01:16 A Personal Update from Karly
02:04 Exploring Shadow Work
05:52 The Survivor Card
07:22 The Fear Card
10:12 The Support System Card
10:22 Acknowledging My Support System
11:16 The Mask: Hidden Aspects of Myself
13:45 Facing My Fears: The Confrontation
15:27 Transforming Weaknesses into Strengths
19:20 The Final Girl: My Ultimate Goal
20:08 Conclusion and Listener Engagement
 

The Final Girl

In this chilling episode of What Lies Buried, Karly Latham hosts her friend Joy, shedding light on her traumatic childhood marked by emotional and physical abuse from her father. The episode details Joy's survival in an unpredictable and abusive household, her family's perilous attempts to escape, and the courage it took to intervene and save her mother during a violent incident. The narrative explores the impact of domestic violence, the systemic issues in addressing such cases, and Joy's eventual journey to the UK where she began healing through therapy. The story is a testament to resilience, the importance of support systems, and the empowerment found in strategic planning and self-defense. Listeners are provided with practical advice for escaping dangerous situations and finding strength in vulnerability.
 
 
If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse, please seek help: 
https://www.thehotline.org/ 
Please subscribe to get a new episode every Thursday and uncover the stories that need to be told. 
If you would like to be involved with the show as a guest please schedule with this link: https://calendly.com/thevillagetarotwitch/what-lies-buried-podcast-interview?preview_source=et_card&month=2024-10 
For in-depth articles on emotional abuse and mental health, https://medium.com/@karly-latham 
 
 
00:00 Introduction to What Lies Buried
01:21 Highlighting Different Types of Abuse
02:06 Introducing Joy: A Story of Parental Abuse
02:49 Joy's Early Childhood: A Mix of Love and Fear
04:10 The Dual Nature of Joy's Father
05:46 The Turning Point: Recognizing the Red Flags
07:09 The Impact of Control and Fear
09:49 Dark Humor as a Coping Mechanism
10:07 Joy's School Years: The Beginning of Realization
37:12 The Hidden Horrors: Joy's Secret Diaries
46:35 The Reality of Escaping Abuse
47:08 Financial and Religious Constraints
47:38 The Role of Women in Conservative Christianity
50:39 The Illusion of Choice in Abusive Relationships
52:44 The Danger of Leaving an Abuser
54:45 The Escalation of Abuse
58:17 The Breaking Point
01:08:29 A Mother's Enabling and a Daughter's Desperation
01:10:30 The Final Confrontation
01:26:18 The Urgency to Escape
01:27:16 Seeking Help from Neighbors
01:29:17 A Heroic Teacher's Aid
01:31:07 Legal and Emotional Battles
01:34:30 Family Dynamics and Gaslighting
01:39:55 Health Crisis and Continued Threats
01:56:16 The Importance of Therapy and Healing
02:02:20 Final Reflections and Advice
 

The Ketamine Addict

In this episode of 'What Lies Buried,' host Karly Latham speaks with an anonymous guest who bravely shares her story of emotional abuse perpetrated by her partner, who struggled with addiction. The guest describes how her relationship, which began during a vulnerable period in her life, transitioned from charming to controlling and abusive. Key elements of the narrative include the partner's manipulative and deceitful tactics, such as love bombing, gaslighting, and isolating her from friends and family, alongside his use of ketamine and alcohol. The guest highlights the complex dynamics of abuse, including the psychological manipulation and the difficult realization that she was being targeted. The episode underscores the importance of trusting one's instincts, seeking professional guidance, and recognizing the red flags of abuse and addiction. It offers valuable insights into the cycle of abuse, the impact on mental health, and how survivors can begin to heal and reclaim their autonomy after leaving an abusive relationship.
 
If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse, please seek help: 
https://www.thehotline.org/ 
Please subscribe to get a new episode every Thursday and uncover the stories that need to be told. 
If you would like to be involved with the show as a guest please schedule with this link: https://calendly.com/thevillagetarotwitch/what-lies-buried-podcast-interview?preview_source=et_card&month=2024-10 
For in-depth articles on emotional abuse and mental health, https://medium.com/@karly-latham 
 
 
 
 
00:00 Introduction to What Lies Buried
01:16 First Guest from Across the Pond
01:50 The Beginning of the Relationship
04:41 Red Flags and Addictions
10:28 Escalation and Realization
16:02 The Cycle of Abuse
30:37 The Child's Perspective
35:48 The Struggle to Leave
36:49 Valentine's Day Roller Disco
37:52 A Public Confrontation
39:54 The Breaking Point
43:52 Seeking Help and Taking Action
47:52 Reflection and Recovery
51:50 Learning to Trust Again
01:00:36 Final Thoughts and Advice
01:09:31 Conclusion and Support
 

Escaping Cults with The Glory Whole

Join host Karly Latham in this compelling episode of "What Lies Buried," where we delve into the real and raw stories of emotional abuse survivors. This week, Karly welcomes Melissa Doogie Spires, a former Seventh-day Adventist, who shares her journey of leaving the church and dealing with the long-lasting effects of religious control.
Melissa recounts her experiences growing up in a high-demand religion, the church's imposed behavioral controls, and her challenges in breaking free. Together, Karly and Melissa explore the striking similarities between Seventh-day Adventists and Mormons, highlighting the mind control and social pressures that shape their followers' lives.
As they discuss the parallels between religious indoctrination and emotional abuse, listeners will gain insights into the struggles of deconstructing one's faith and rebuilding a life of personal empowerment. This episode sheds light on the hidden truths of religious control and offers a safe space for survivors to share their stories.
Don't miss this eye-opening conversation, which will uncover the truth buried beneath the lies and inspire a path toward healing and self-discovery.
Stay involved with Melissa's advocacy efforts: https://www.instagram.com/the.glory.whole/
If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse, please seek help: 
https://www.thehotline.org/ 
Please subscribe to get a new episode every Thursday and uncover the stories that need to be told. 
If you would like to be involved with the show as a guest, please schedule with this link: https://calendly.com/thevillagetarotwitch/what-lies-buried-podcast-interview?preview_source=et_card&month=2024-10 
For in-depth articles on emotional abuse and mental health, https://medium.com/@karly-latham 
 
00:00 Introduction to What Lies Buried
01:21 Exploring Religious Abuse
01:42 Guest Introduction: Melissa Doogie Spires
02:02 Leaving the Church: Personal Experiences
02:40 Behavioral Controls in Religious Upbringings
04:25 Comparing Mormonism and Seventh-day Adventism
04:46 The Origins and History of Seventh-day Adventism
09:09 The Impact of Dietary Rules and Lifestyle Controls
11:53 Navigating Life Outside the Church
23:43 The Role of Women in High-Demand Religions
39:22 Navigating Family Discomfort with PTSD
40:38 Exploring Financial Abuse and Cognitive Dissonance
42:08 Impact of Religious Upbringing on Emotional Expression
43:14 Struggles with Eating Disorders and Seeking Help
44:28 Normalizing Toxic Relationships
46:48 The Pressure to Maintain a Perfect Appearance
50:59 Exhaustion as a Control Tactic in Religion and Relationships
53:10 Escaping and Deconstructing Abusive Relationships
01:07:24 Writing and Sharing Stories of Religious Trauma
01:15:08 Conclusion and Call to Action
 
 

The F*ck Boi

In this intense episode of 'What Lies Buried,' host Karly Latham examines the harrowing story of an anonymous guest's experience with emotional abuse. The narrative begins with an unstable relationship with Dylan before delving deeper into a complex and deceitful relationship with Nathan. The guest describes highs of affection and love, sharply contrasted by Nathan's deceit, infidelity, and financial manipulation, culminating in revelations of his multiple affairs. The story concludes with the guest's courageous decision to start afresh, leaning on her support system and forming bonds with other victims. Karly provides a vital platform for sharing these isolating experiences, drawing attention to common patterns of emotional abuse and emphasizing the importance of self-belief and emotional support in recovery.
 
If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse, please seek help: 
https://www.thehotline.org/ 
Please subscribe to get a new episode every Thursday and uncover the stories that need to be told. 
If you would like to be involved with the show as a guest please schedule with this link: https://calendly.com/thevillagetarotwitch/what-lies-buried-podcast-interview?preview_source=et_card&month=2024-10 
For in-depth articles on emotional abuse and mental health, https://medium.com/@karly-latham 
 
 
00:00 Introduction to What Lies Buried
01:22 Patterns in Emotionally Abusive Relationships
01:56 Guest's Story: The Relationship with Dylan
04:32 The Breakup and Aftermath
06:09 Meeting Nathan: A New Beginning
13:11 The Honeymoon Phase with Nathan
18:49 Red Flags and Relationship Dynamics
31:43 Living Together and Financial Struggles
38:32 Nathan's New Friend Sarah
42:56 Questioning the Relationship
44:19 The European Vacation
46:30 The Breakup Bombshell
52:36 Pandemic Separation
55:58 Birthday Revelations
01:10:04 False Promises and Moving On
01:27:21 New Beginnings and Reflections
01:27:53 Meeting Jeremy and Making It Official
01:28:21 Nathan's Unexpected Reaction
01:30:14 Navigating a New Relationship
01:31:42 Nathan's Art Show and New Connections
01:33:54 Concert Encounter with Colleen
01:36:40 Discovering Nathan's Deception
01:49:08 Confronting the Truth
02:03:44 Reflecting on the Experience
02:05:47 Final Thoughts and Advice
 

Sexual Coercion with Allison Baxley

In this gripping episode of What Lies Buried, host Karly Latham welcomes Allison Baxley, a talented writer from Medium, to share her harrowing experience with emotional and sexual abuse within a 22-year marriage. Allison bravely recounts the escalating abuse, the financial control, and the horrifying moments that led her to realize she was a victim of marital rape.
Through Allison's story, listeners will gain insight into the complexities of abuse, the courage it takes to leave, and the importance of recognizing and addressing emotional and psychological manipulation. This episode is a powerful reminder that support and justice are crucial for survivors.
Trigger Warning: This episode discusses themes of abuse, including sexual coercion and domestic violence, which may be triggering for some listeners. Please proceed with caution.
If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse, please seek help: 
https://www.thehotline.org/ 
Please subscribe to get a new episode every Thursday and uncover the stories that need to be told. 
If you would like to be involved with the show as a guest or want to submit your story for future listener minisodes, please write to karlyr.latham@gmail.com 
https://medium.com/@baxleyallisonw Allison Baxley on Medium 
https://medium.com/@karly-latham/sexual-coercion-e643a72b197f Sexual Coercion article 
00:00 Introduction to What Lies Buried
01:16 Meet Allison Baxley: A Story of Escalating Abuse
03:33 Financial Control and Emotional Manipulation
07:51 Realization and Recognition of Domestic Violence
12:38 Sexual Coercion and Marital Rape
19:44 The Struggle for Autonomy and Peace
37:27 The Decision to Seek Justice
47:36 Discovering the Deleted Email
50:09 Family Vacation Nightmare
52:18 Revealing the Abuse to Friends and Family
54:21 Deciding to Leave
01:09:18 The Healing Journey Begins
01:11:11 Therapeutic Techniques and Hypnosis
01:26:16 Final Words and Advice